A few weeks ago, I wrote on Evy's blog about a problem I was having at work in regards to breast pumping. Well, I finally heard back about my concern and was told:
A) The lounge is rarely used (um, if it was rarely used this wouldn't be a
problem and yet it is so…What does that tell you about the "rarely
used" lounge?)
B) I can't use a conference room because they are used for meetings and it might cause an awkward situation for "all parties involved".
C) I can use a bathroom (apparently, my comment about how unsanitary it was – not to mention difficult given the lack of table even if there is a chair – fell on deaf ears).
D) I can use the women's locker room which is in another building, is chair-less & table-less (because they have a bench) & lacks electrical outlets near any seating.
Last but not least, it was implied that management had more important issues to solve and that it was "my problem" to find a solution for.
I'm sorry, but that's bullshit. I usually don't complain about my employer because they really go above and beyond most times but in this instance I feel I'm getting the short end of the stick. I tried to solve "my problem" by using a conference room that I'd scheduled, but I was shot down. I tried suggesting that our lounge be a scheduled resource, but was also shot down. Furthermore, if a conference room is occupied (and we have indicators outside of the door to notify people) why are people going into the room anyhow?
Why is this such a big deal to people? I don't care who sees me expressing breast milk, why do others care? Its not as though I strip from my neck to my waist and then sit on top of the table in the center of the room using a boat horn. It's all very discrete and can be made even more discrete if it was such an issue about "public decency".
I'm not really sure where to go from here. I'm not sure if I want to make it more of an issue, and pursue it with my Union rep or perhaps even make it a legal matter – or if I want to just continue to use a conference room on the off times that the lounge isn't available. So frustrating given the fact that this is a requirement for me. I wish that people wouldn't just think, "Oh, well she's choosing to do this instead of formula feeding." or "She's choosing to be a working mother." No. NO. That's not fair.
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