The principle of the thing.

We finally got our security deposit back on the rental house. Didn’t receive the entire amount that we placed, but I wasn’t expecting to. We did however get charged for items that I wasn’t expecting to be charged for that were not brought to my attention during the final walk through. I’m unsure of how to precede, your thoughts would be appreciated (though please, don’t tell me what I “should” have done – can’t change anything in the past). Here’s a short chain of events to explain what I’m dealing with:

Thursday Dec 23: Final walk through. We were not ready (had a few things in the house) and so we (property agent & I) agreed to have another walk through after Jan 3 – but we were still relinquishing the keys so they could show the house. On this date the issue to be addressed was simply that the house needed to be cleaned better, though I told her that we had a guarantee from the carpet cleaners we used that they would return if it was needed. She also commented on a strange smell – which I explained was from the cat next door marking the OUTSIDE of the house.

Monday Jan 3: I called property agent and explained that while we finished moving our property out we were unable to get the house cleaned better (no electricity) and I said to charge us for that. She mentioned something about a towel rack in the bathroom, which I explained was in the garage and had been there since the day we moved it – it was removed by the home owner to paint the walls and the HOME OWNER never replaced it.

Thursday Jan 20: Received the security deposit with breakdown. Discovered we were charged for the house to be cleaned, carpets to be cleaned, and replacement of towel rack (this last one included materials AND labor).

As this is only my second property to have rented, I have no idea what my rights are. Was I supposed to be notified of other issues and have a chance to correct them? Can I contest the charge of the carpets being cleaned considering I told our property agent that we had a guarantee of satisfaction or return? Can I contest the charge of replacing the towel rack considering the material was still in the house and we didn’t even remove it in the first place?!

All in all, they charged us $175 – which is on top of the $215 we spent ourselves to get the house ready. I’m really frustrated knowing that I was trying to be proactive and was STILL charged. It shouldn’t cost someone nearly $400 to move out of a 900 sqft house that had no real damage to walls, flooring, or appliances.

My parents say I should keep my mouth shut. They say they never got back their security deposits. I point out the fact that back in the 70′s people probably didn’t have to give $1800 to secure a property – nor were there tenant rights. My sister says I should fight tooth & nail over the principle of the thing. I’m torn.

Only two more months…

I’m going to be really happy to be out of our current rented location at the end of the year. The house is nice, but there are a lot of “little” things that make it frustrating – and shows its age. We’d had this little list building, because frankly I’ve been afraid to bring to their attention issues since the whole water heater fiasco, but I finally called our leasing office last night about it.

The first issue on our list is the fact that we’re unable to use the heater – which is located in the garage – because the gas continues to flow or leak from somewhere even when the heater has turned off because the house is warm enough. With the weather,blessedly, turning cool finally – the house drops into the high sixties at night. I know some of you might be thinking, “Oh that’s nothing!” but it’s something to us. Plus, the baby can’t keep herself warm like us adults can. Our leasing office advised us to call the Gas Company because they do free inspections of gas using appliances, so they’ll be coming out tonight.

The other issue is the fact that our bathroom sink facet has gone from a normal flow to a trickle – and we can’t even use it to wash our hands anymore. We were told to fiddle with the knobs under the sink, but it didn’t work. We could turn OFF the water by the knobs, but no amount of twisting would get them to produce a normal flow again.

The third issue, which I ended up not bringing up, is the fact that our bathroom outlet seems to control some of the electrical outlets in the garage. So if we have to reset the bathroom, it reset the garage too. This passed weekend however, something went wrong with the electrical and so not only was the bathroom outlet not working but neither was our electric garage door, our electric cat box, or our Verizon FiOS (cable AND internet) box. What an inconvenience. This happened awhile back as well, but when the “electrician” came, nothing was resolved because it had resolved itself before he came. I understand how difficult it is to fix a problem when you can’t replicate the problem – but all the same it sucked.

Plus the bugs, OH THE BUGS! We’re STILL battling ants, and no amount of house cleaning is keeping them away. We’ve also got spiders everywhere. Weekly I’ve been having to pull out the vacuum with the extendable arm and vacuum all the webs – and often times spiders too – out of all the corners just to keep it under some semblance of control. Its only a few months before we’re leaving that I hear that our leasing office is responsible for keeping bugs out of the house, even though they told me differently when I asked in the beginning of summer LAST year.

I’m through with it all. Its stuff like this that makes me want to buy a house, so while it would be our responsibility and our money, at least it gets done.

Thank God it’s Monday.

I know, usually it’s “TGIF” – but I’m someone who also really enjoys a good “TGIM”. I like Mondays because it’s a start of a new week, a new start all the way around.

Last week was terrible. I’m going to write about it, at length, because I have a feeling if I just get it down I’ll get it out of my head and I can move on.

Last Monday was Memorial Day, and it was then that I realized there was a spot in the carpet by the front door entry way that was wet. At first I assumed the baby just left her water cup there a bit too long, and it leaked (despite all the “leak proof” claims), but by Monday night the spot had gotten BIGGER so I called our property management (PM) and left a voicemail. It was Tuesday morning that Paul was in our garage and noticed our water heater was leaking – and had been – seeing as how the surrounding area (a raised wooden structure covered in plaster board) was drenched.

I called out of work, got on the phone with our PM again (I hadn’t heard from them about my previous message), and someone was out to our house pretty quickly. Beforehand, Paul & I spent a bit of time in the garage getting the boxes we were storing (that were now wet and ruined) out of the way. Once our PM rep was there we drained the water heater and called in someone to replace it. He said we’d have to remove not only the water heater, but also all the wet plaster board and the heater that was sitting on the raised structure beside the water heater. He estimated $1,400 – and said he’d have to go and get all the necessary tools and return – which he did around noon and worked until about 8pm. He told us he’d be back the next morning, around 6:30am, and that he had to leave at noon for a funeral. He didn’t say anything else, so I took that to mean he’d be done by noon.

That night we bought an electric kettle, to quickly boil large amounts of water in order to at least clean and sanitize the baby’s bottles and stuff. We also pulled back a good three feet of the carpet on the west side of the house and set up multiple fans to dry all of the wet padding & carpet. We had to move a ton of furniture and the house was in complete chaos – and smelled like an old sponge. Plus, I hadn’t showered in two days, we’d unfortunately been on the cusp of needing clean clothes & towels, and there were a ton of dirty dishes. But it had been a long day so we just went to bed.

I come home from work Wednesday night to find that A) the water heater was in place, B) our heater was not C) our clothes dryer had been moved and not replaced and D) there were tools everywhere. Clearly, he was not done – and when we try the hot water we just got a lot of sputtering and brown water. Frantic that I’d be ANOTHER night without hot water, I called our PM asking questions. After some investigation we found out that he’d not been able to finish the job before noon, the water heater was working, the heater was not, our air conditioner was not, and he’d return the next day to finish the job and install the clothes dryer again. So, we weren’t able to run the air conditioner (after a hot day the house was in the 80′s), we weren’t able to run the heater (after the sun set, it cooled down drastically and since we had the house open and all the fans on it dropped into the 60′s), we couldn’t dry clothes, but we COULD shower and do the dishes.

Thursday the job was completed, though we had another team in the garage because of the heater & air conditioner. They finished up around sun set and I was glad that it was finished. They decided to let us know though, that our heater & air conditioner should be serviced because of their age. They offered to do both for a good price, and said it would improve their performance. I said we’d talk to our PM and see who would be responsible for it. We didn’t bother trying to put the house back together, because it was late anyhow, so it wasn’t until Saturday morning that we removed the fans and laid the carpet flat and replaced all the furniture.

Friday I was frantic to find out that Paul’s paycheck was so small that we were hardly able to make rent. Money stresses me out so much. Not only did I have to worry about rent but also a credit card payment. I realized I could remove some money from a secondary checking account, but I had to rush down to the bank before they closed at 6pm and it was too late to make the payment by then. So I was late, which I REALLY hate seeing as how that’ll be on my record and they’ll charge me $39 in a late fee. I’ll be SO glad to get this all paid off and closed next year when we move in with my parents.

Feeling like such a failure, I decided to call and make an appointment to get the brakes done on my car. I had a coupon, and I knew that we could afford it if I took a bit of extra money from our secondary checking account, which I thought would be worth it. I also was determined to get the garage cleaned up seeing as how the “flood” forced us to move a bunch of boxes anyhow – maybe a weekend of getting stuff done would make up for the terrible week.

Saturday we got the house put back together, in a sense. The carpet is still not tacked down so we’re trying to keep Evy away from where it was pulled up so she doesn’t hurt herself on the tacks. We drove two cars down to get my brakes done (because they said it could take up to 3 hours) to get there and realize I’d misunderstood the coupon and it would cost about… four times as much as I’d budgeted for. So we headed home – but instead of working on the garage we just ate lunch, lounged around, let the baby nap and then went to church. That was the bright point of my day – as church was really good and we had dinner with my sister & friends afterward. We’d work on the garage on Sunday.

Sunday we slept in. By the time we got up and started on the garage it was noon,  80° in the house, and we skipped breakfast. We got very little done before we stopped to eat. We got some more boxes pulled out but once I looked inside it was hard to say, “toss it!” like I thought we would. It ends up a lot of the stuff we have stored needs to be reorganized, not just discarded. Plus our one trash can supplied by the city filled up quickly with trash that was just lying around. We started to pile trash in a corner but we still didn’t make much progress. Still cannot park my car in the garage.

After lunch our PM rep came by the house to take pictures. She dropped a bomb on us to say that the homeowner was thinking of seeking monetary restitution from us because she felt that it wouldn’t have been such a cost if we’d noticed the water heater was leaking earlier. That’s of opinion, and I told the PM rep that much. She suggested that we not get too excited about it until the homeowner decides – which I think is a good idea, but I’m still upset about it. If she does decide, then she’s looking for $600, which is just not fair. We’re looking at our options – so far as what is expected of us as tenants and what it expected of them as landlords and we’ll pursue it further if she chooses to.

I slept terribly, my mind couldn’t shut off and the stress was horrible, and woke to a fly buzzing around my ear. So annoying.

So, like I said. It’s Monday – a new start.

Looking ahead.

Well, yesterday AFTERNOON kind of sucked. Luckily my sister came by and not only did that perk me up a bit, I also was able to vent too. There wasn’t much that she could say – that anyone can say – because the truth is I have no idea what I want.

Do I want to quit my job and be a full-time mom? Yes! But will that make me happy? I don’t know – I’ve never done it. Even when I was on maternity leave I was confused and lonely. What if it ends up I’m not cut out for the 24/7 baby life? Do I want to get pregnant and have another baby by next September? Yes! But will that make me happy? I don’t know, it’s going to be more on my already full plate – plus it would put more on my sister’s plate given the fact she’d be taking another kid into her daily care. Do I want to look into buying a house? Yes! We could lower our monthly housing payment and stop moving around which would be REALLY nice. But would that make me happy? I don’t think so, given the fact that I don’t really like our area and only stay here because of my job.

I don’t know what I want. I’m feeling very lost, and it’s got to be the worst time for it. I need to know who I am. I’m nearly 27 years old and I’m a wife and mother – how can I be so lost?

I have to think of the now, or I’ll go crazy. Right now I can’t quit my job – maybe after we pay our debt down (which we’ll start doing next January) – but not now. Right now I’m not getting pregnant – hell I’ve only stopped breastfeeding and I NEED to lose all the extra weight. Right now we can’t buy a house given we have no down payment, no loan, and we’re locked into our lease until January.

Right now though, I can start working on losing weight. Right now I can start working on getting myself onto a schedule and maybe injecting some sanity into my life. Right now I can work on being a great mom and a good employee and recognizing what is out of my hands and what is not.

What’s that quote? God, give me the sense to recognize what I can change, what I can’t, and accept both? Its something like that…

This is going to be long…

I don’t really feel like writing more than one post – but I’ve got a bit to say so I’m just going to have a LONG single post, enjoy :P

Last Friday Paul got a new van – well new for him, it’s a 1996 Chrysler Town & Country – courtesy of his late grandfather. At first, I wasn’t really excited about getting a van because I thought we’d have a whole new host of issues, but it’s actually been really nice! The space is nice – especially with a baby (even if it is only one) and it drives nicely and seems to be working well. Plus it seems to be a luxury model as it has leather seats, premium sound, and power everything. Nice. A/C (VERY important in SoCal) seems to work well, we replaced the radio so it’s up to date and plays our iPhone easily, the engine doesn’t make any weird sounds and the brakes are good too. We’re no longer forced to take my car on account of comfort which means I’m going to go get it cleaned and it’ll stay that way :)

We’re having my nephew’s first birthday hosted at my house this Sunday so I’ve been cleaning a lot this week in preparation. I’m a fiend about cleanliness when others are in a position to judge and comment – even if they don’t. I’m one of those people where I miss NOTHING (well, I’m sure I miss some stuff, but I’m still very observant) and if I can notice it then I assume others will. Paul hates it because I can follow him around the house and tell him what he did based on the mess he left :P It’s nice having the house really clean – now if only I could get into the garage and make THAT clean. What a waste of space, it’s so disappointing.

This Saturday we’re going to a wedding. I’m not very excited about it because I don’t know the couple well, the reception is 45 minutes from the ceremony location, and we’re taking Evy so I’m always nervous about that. It’s going to be another busy weekend!

I tried a new store for ebooks called Kobo. They sell epubs, which my Nook can read, and they’ve been sending me coupons a lot. One such coupon was for $2 off, which is awesome. The regular prices aren’t amazing and they don’t have a great selection but I’ve found their prices are better than Fictionwise (who doesn’t give coupons) and I get the same portability of the books. The bummer is that Adobe Editions handles the files – and Adobe SUCKS. First, I had to download their software. Then I had to create an account. Then I had to “authorize” my computer – but here’s where the trouble started: this past Christmas I helped a co-worker fix their Sony eReader and for some odd reason Adobe Editions automatically authorized the computer under HIS email address. Then when it tried to “authorize” my device by that address I kept declining. But it wasn’t letting me enter in the address to authorize it with! It was so frustrating. Finally I got online and figured out how to deauthorize the software, reauthorize with the correct address and then authorize my device. Then another issue came: because I downloaded the book before realizing that the software authorized under the wrong address the book was authorized to the WRONG address which didn’t match my Nook so I couldn’t put it on my Nook! SUCH A HASSLE. In the end Kobo had to reissue me the book which I had to re-download and then everything was fine. Very quick. Not sure if I’ll use them very often, but if they keep sending me coupons I’m happy :)

We booked a nice Inn in Pacific Grove for our vacation! We got a great rate through Hotels. com and it included free parking and breakfast. It’s only six blocks or so from the aquarium and near the shore so it’ll be really comfortable I think. We’re planning on going the weekend after next – because the weekend of the 17th is Evy’s 1st birthday!!! I just bought the cutest birthday set off line, and as soon as I get the decorations its off to the cake maker!

Today’s Friday – and it’s going by nice and fast :D

‘Allo You!

Hello Vox! Miss you. This is a Vox only post. No Facebook. No Twitter. No Posterous – just Vox.

I’m loving my Nook – but I think its more the “ebook” experience than just the reader. Its got some kinks to work out – but I’m so used to adopting early tech – and working with/through it – that I hardly notice the issues. I love laying in bed and reading now. I love getting stuck and bored somewhere now – because I have an excellent excuse to use it. I love the built in dictionary and bookmarking. Its just a great piece of tech. So far I’ve reader four books, purchased seven, and uploaded a bunch of work PDFs.
Evy has sprouted a third tooth! I’m not sure if I ever announced on Vox that she sprouted her first two teeth – but she did over the Halloween weekend. She’s also sitting up unassisted, and also able to sit herself up from her stomach. Sometimes I go into her room to wake her and she’s sitting up and playing with her aquarium or something – its adorable! We’ve started her on solid foods, but she doesn’t seem to have a taste for them so we keep trying. We started with fruits, but maybe she’s more like her mom and likes the salty goodness of veggies. She’s not quite crawling yet, but she is definitely mobile.
Given money troubles all around, I have’t really been in the Christmas mood. I really wanted to decorate this year, given the fact that we’re not going to be decorating next year (our move in/out dates are within days of Christmas so it’s just not logical). But then days kept passing and trees are expensive and blah, blah, blah. I can’t wait until we finally get a house of our own and I can feel like nesting. Right now I have no desire. Evy’s room is the most decorated room in the house and I haven’t even put window treatments up.
Our backyard, which has been taking a LONG time, is still not finished but is getting there slowly but surely. They’ve finally finished with the sprinklers, this Friday he’s supposed to be coming around and rototilling the earth in prep for the grass seeds. The rain has been good to us – aside from delaying the process a bit – and with the new concrete down it’s also been less messy.
So…that is what has been going on :)

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GRASS!

I’m really tired today. It doesn’t help that walking into work made me cold so I put on a sweater and scarf when I got in. Now I’m toasty warm and drowsy to boot :(

I haven’t posted in awhile because I’ve been SO busy at work.  I’m playing trainer again, once more for our Intranet, and it’s been exhausting. I decided to take on building the training manual, and 40 pages later I feel amazed at how many screen shots you can take for one process. BUT! I’m extremely happy with it – while I wasn’t happy with our “one-page cheat sheet” we gave last time. Yesterday was the first day of training and I think it went really well! Particularly because one of my team members who was gone is very vocal during training so I feel like I’m interrupted often and I cant follow the process I’d like to follow. But it’s a team effort and I’m part of a team :) We have five more training days, with two sessions each, to go – so I’ll be at this until the end of next week. I just hope that all my hard work – trying to retrain these people – isn’t pointless.

In other news, I don’t think I’ve mentioned that work has began in our backyard! We now have a sidewalk that wraps around the house (while before it was just some uneven bricks in the dirt) and soon – SOON – we’ll have grass. I really can’t wait for grass, and I have to decide what I want to do in regards to the planter that borders the yard. Half of it is raised and the other half is not. Most of the plants are dead other than a really strange bush/tree, a palm tree, and a large bush – none of which add any cohesive look to the yard. If I had my way, I’d border the yard in this plant, Stipa tennuissima, because I like how it’s “fluffy” and so we’d have to plant less and get a bigger result. I also like this plant, Salvia leucantha, because I like the deep purple color. I’m not sure how the home owner would feel though. She seems to like teeny, delicate easily fried flowers while I like billowy dought resistant ones :P

I’ve been writing this post for a good three hours and  I don’t that productive for it. Oh well.

Good, and bad.

Evy didn't sleep too well last night, not sure why & I'm not going to over-analyze it like I always do. She's sleeping right now, her second nap today (she woke up at 9am but went back to sleep shortly after), which is working great because I'm finaly doing some cleaning around the house.

Shameful admission: I don't like to clean – and often times I just don't do it. I haven't mopped in about… five months, and I know this because I had some help cleaning the house the week Evy was born and that was the last time they were mopped. I haven't vacuumed in close to two months, but I'm going to blame that on the fact that our vacuum is broken and we have to borrow my sister's and it can only be for one night because she has to vacuum everyday what with having a toddler & infant herself. But I'm finally doing the mopping & I'm going to borrow the vacuum tonight hopefully to get that done.

What I wouldn't give for a cleaning service that I didn't feel guilty spending the money on…

On another "house" note, last Tuesday my Dad came over and helped me finally trim & shape the tree in the front yard. It looked really good once we were done and I was excited to enjoy the shade with the baby. Friday comes around and this guy that lives on our street – who I'm assuming did most of the handy man work around here for the homeowner – comes by and says he's going to trim the tree on request of the homeowner. I wasn't home, but Paul was and he said that it was because it had bees.

BEES. This pisses me off because I happen to like that fact that the tree flowered and bees were pollenating it and making other flowers and the circle of life was continuing as God intended. What worse is he BUTCHERED it. It looks terrible now and with the summer season ending it likely won't look as full until next spring. Out of all the things about the front yard that pisses me off, the tree wasn't even on there. The stupid – now fried & dead – flowers made for an east coast climate are still roting there but it's the beautiful tree be takes his pruning chainsaw to. I understand that trees need to be trimmed, but he went overboard.

Whatever. It's not my house I just happen to live here.

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Can’t get no satisfaction.

How was everyone's 4th of July? Mine was hot – very, very hot. Friday I had lunch with Jane and did a bit of shopping – it was nice seeing her again, hopefully she'll keep letting me know when she's free. Saturday felt like a Sunday and I was SO glad it wasn't Sunday. We had a late lunch/early dinner with my sister's family and it was YUMMY! They made sausage, chicken, burgers, corn on the cob cooked on the grill, this special potato salad that actually tasted like a baked potato (sour cream, bacon bits, chives & cheddar cheese) and cup cakes! Surprisingly, I ate a lot – must have been needing the calories :) Sunday we just relaxed – the heat was intense.

Our garage is starting to stink because of the heat and our lawnmower – not really sure why given we only mow our front lawn which we don't let our animals use. We've been killing a lot of spiders around the house recently, and it's starting to piss me off. When we lived in our apartment we got spiders every now and again but nothing like this. I was thinking of calling our leasing office but I'm not sure if that's even something they can help with. I mean, spiders go where spiders go – right? I noticed a collection of webs in one area of our garage near the door (large automatic door, not the one into the house) and I tugged on the threads to check and see if they were from a black widow – and they were. That scares me! We really need to clean out the garage and I know we'll be less likely to do it with the possibility of getting bit by a black widow. This weekend, despite it being 4th of July, I really wanted to work on the garage. As I'm sure I've mentioned, our garage has a lot of built in storage and I want to take advantage of that and clean it up in there. Our washer and dryer is in there, so I'm out there all the time and I'd like to make it nice.

I also want to get our backyard put together. I'm getting really frustrated with the house in general. Need to make a list and get things DONE.

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